8 Signs A Guy Just Wants Sex And Not A Relationship
In almost every relationship, a woman gets skeptical and begins to wonder if perhaps, that man is the right person.
You may have some doubts and may be confused about whether your partner truly loves you or just using you as a sex object.
Look no further as this post is just for you.
Here are 8 signs that will let you know if your man is just using you for sex.
1. If he only contacts you after dark
If your guy only calls you hours after the sun has set below the horizon and the stars come out, chances are, it’s not because he’s in the mood for stargazing but because he’s definitely in the mood for some sex. If you never hear from him until evening hours, unless he is a doctor and has a very busy schedule, it’s likely that it means he only has sex on his mind.
2. If he doesn’t respond to you unless you want to hook up.
If you text him to say, “How’s your day going?” or “How was your big interview?” and you hear nothing all day, then he doesn’t want to make small talk. But if you text him a casual “I want to see you tonight,” one night, and he cancels other plans to see you, then there is a problem.
3. If you never talk about your personal lives.
If all you do is talk about hooking up or how much you want each other, then your relationship is mostly about sex. Sure, many relationships can start off like that; you’re obsessed with each other, you’re always having sex, you’re missing invitations to have sex, etc — but if it’s been a long time and you haven’t progressed past the sex sex sex always phase, then your relationship may not be much deeper than that.
4. If He’s secretive about his past
If you are the only one disclosing all the details of your past history/ escapades, relationships, etc, and he never shares real details about his past, but always phrases questions to get more information about you, then be careful he is trying to manipulate you.
See how he reacts when you ask him what he’s thinking, feeling, wondering about. If he immediately backs off, then you have a problem.
5. If he’s quick to leave after a lovemaking session.
Or if he doesn’t really contact you after a lovemaking session. Does he rarely or never stay the night? If so, you’re one of his nightly activities, not the love of his life. If he gives you feathery kisses, and then start throwing on his clothes, then he doesn’t want to spend the night with you because it will feel too much like you have a real relationship. And if he always offers a convenient excuse for why he has to go, or why he doesn’t contact, or he is always so busy, then that’s even worse.
6.If you never kiss without it leading to sex.
In most relationships, people kiss just to show affection, to feel a connection, and to be intimate in a quick and enjoyable fashion. You can just be kissing when you’re taking a walk, kissing in a dark bar, or just because you have the urge to cuddle but not to make love.
If every time you kiss your man, he starts reaching for your body parts, then he may think that he should only kiss you for some sexy time.
7. If he never reveals personal information.
Guys who are using a woman for sex often give few or no details about themselves. Have you gleaned what you know about him from friends, personal observation, general conversations, past interactions, or has he really volunteered personal and revealing information about himself to you? This is a very telling point, so it is worth considering carefully.
8. If he rarely seems to care how you’re feeling.
Have you never heard him randomly ask if you’re upset, ask how your day was, or just wonder why you have tears in your eyes? If he seems absolutely allergic to your emotions, then chances are it’s not because he’s too shy to ask or too awkward to help you deal with it, but it’s because he just doesn’t really care that much. If he’s just into you for sex, then any of your complicated, passionate feelings will be a trouble for him and nothing more.